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I am an East Coast expatriate hiding out in the Midwest...

I am an urban gal living in the suburbs and occasionally hiding in the country

I am a yoga practitioner, fitness enthusiast, believer in the mind-body-spirit connection...

I am a mid-life "revert" to the Roman Catholic faith in which I was raised and which has become an enormous source of support, encouragement, inspiration, and joy in my life...

I am a mom, sister, daughter, and wife...

I am an explorer; adventurous and curious about the world and people around me...

I am educated in the formal sense but I gain insight through everyday living...

I created this blog at a time of great fear and apprehension in my life. I chose to sustain it because of the discoveries about myself and the world around me that it has revealed.



What you can expect to find here:
  • the documentation of a love-hate relationship with the greater Philadelphia area
  • reminiscing about the good-ole-days (the 80's!)
  • complaints about my various ailments and injuries, both real and imagined
  • pictures and stories of gardening, decorating, shopping, sewing
  • my love of irony
  • links to kooky news stories
  • way too much scatological musing for sane people


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    Tuesday, May 06, 2008
    Say it Ain't So

    Today I went shopping for summer clothes...and it bordered on feeling like a chore.

    I was so glad that my husband was home from work today (he took me out for a long lunch for my birthday) so that he could watch the kiddo while I went up the road to a local shopping center. There is a larger chain store, a sort of discount yet "upscale" department store that I have never browsed and so I ventured there and was pleased with the selection and the prices. However, I was not pleased with how many of the items looked ON me once I got into the dressing room.

    *sigh*

    I suppose the good part of this, is that I end up buying only things that truly fit well, are comfortable, and make me feel confident. I have gotten quite fussy over the years in regards to fit and flattery of any given clothing item. As noted, the upside to the challenege of finding anything I like is that it keeps me on budget. The downside is that I find myself washing the same few items I do like over and over again so that I'll have SOMETHING to cover me to leave the house!

    Add to my conundrum that I have figure flaws (as does virtually everyone) and I'm short (5'2") so many items are often out of proportion and the amont of tailoring that clothes off-the-rack need gets to be frustrating. I can hem pants (which I do.) I've even put darts into a pair of jeans that gapped in the waist. I have stitched closed some suplice necklines that were too generous in the cleavage department.

    But I draw the line at hemming T-shirts. Yeah, tees. I tried this once on some modal tunic tees that were so long on me, they looked like nightgowns. The result was sloppy. Luckily they were inexpensive to begin with, so I didn't mind the "experiment."

    So many cute tops that have wonderful "strategic" neck/waistline embellishments or "gimmicks" like knots, pleats, pintucks, etc, so as to camoflage the tummy area...but every single one I tried on today was so LONG. I also found ZERO tank tops with any kind cut that flattered. And can I just say: enough with the cropped cutesty-retro swing jackets already!!!




    Suprisingly, I did find some shorts that fit nicely, although, as I was trying them on, the communicated a very important message to me: start using self-tanning lotion STAT!!!!

    Posted at 11:07 pm by brandy101

    Posted by Lisa Milton @ 05/08/2008 09:54 PM PDT
    Happy birthday (pretend I'm not late to the party).

    Hope you had a great time.
    Posted by stephanie (bad mom) @ 05/08/2008 09:22 AM PDT
    Happy birthday - glad to hear another woman has a great husband who gives her the Queen for a Day treatment :)

    That frickin' swing jacket (and its sweater cousin) remind me of '50s pregnant mom; all done, blech.

    Hurray for the shorts - good luck with the self-tanning & tank top hunting.
    Posted by Tammy @ 05/07/2008 09:21 PM PDT
    Glad you had a good time on your day!!

    Yeah, clothes shopping is a chore for me, too.... I did the same thing. I went shopping on my birthday, too!! I went to 5 (five) stores, but ended up taking home nothing but a pair of summer sandals! Some of the newer fashions just aren't flattering...

    But you know, I still enjoyed the evening shopping.
    Posted by brandy101 @ 05/07/2008 03:05 PM PDT
    Thanks all - the birthday was the 4th. Hubby and I celebrated on the 6th b/c we he was able to arrange that day off AND childcare for the kid.
    Posted by AbbyNormal @ 05/07/2008 02:56 PM PDT
    What? Birthday?? Today?? Happy Birthday!

    I know what you mean - clothes shopping really is a "chore". On the rare occassions that I find a brand name that fits well, I try to stick with that.
    Posted by Michelle @ 05/07/2008 09:47 AM PDT
    I am with you on the elimination of the cutesy-retro swing jackets! Bye Bye!
    Posted by joe to hell @ 05/07/2008 08:18 AM PDT
    i noticed the birthday buried in there...

    HAPPY DAY!
     

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