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I am an East Coast expatriate hiding out in the Midwest...

I am an urban gal living in the suburbs and occasionally hiding in the country

I am a yoga practitioner, fitness enthusiast, believer in the mind-body-spirit connection...

I am a mid-life "revert" to the Roman Catholic faith in which I was raised and which has become an enormous source of support, encouragement, inspiration, and joy in my life...

I am a mom, sister, daughter, and wife...

I am an explorer; adventurous and curious about the world and people around me...

I am educated in the formal sense but I gain insight through everyday living...

I created this blog at a time of great fear and apprehension in my life. I chose to sustain it because of the discoveries about myself and the world around me that it has revealed.



What you can expect to find here:
  • the documentation of a love-hate relationship with the greater Philadelphia area
  • reminiscing about the good-ole-days (the 80's!)
  • complaints about my various ailments and injuries, both real and imagined
  • pictures and stories of gardening, decorating, shopping, sewing
  • my love of irony
  • links to kooky news stories
  • way too much scatological musing for sane people


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    Saturday, May 17, 2008
    That's "Our Word"

    Yesterday I happened to run into my funny friend, Father Steve. We got to chatting and were talking about unfortunate coincidences of dates. For example, I noted that on my birthday I got a "card" from my doctor that said, "Its your anniversary - it's time for a colonoscopy!"

    He noted that, "Yeah, one lady [presumably another parishioner] was complaining to me, 'It's my birthday and I got my period.' "

    (insert sound of needle scratching across a record.)

    I have zero issues with talk of bodily functions (as evidenced by the lurid tales of my GI tract)  but somehow, hearing a man referring to a complaint about Aunt Flo  BOTHERED me. I was aghast. Ok, granted, I brought up the colonoscopy joke but still...b*tching about periods is, to me, for the exclusive realm of women.

    Secondly, I'm sure the woman he referred to (although not by name) wouldn't appreciate her cycles being broadcast to other parishioners.

    I know guys complain ABOUT us, as in, "Ugh, she's being a real pain in the a** 'cause she's on her period."

    But not try to empathize. Eww, again, that is just, somehow bothersome, and I'm not exactly sure why.

    But then, this particular gent has been known to try to empathize with us women before (click and scroll to May 18th 2007 entry).


    Posted at 08:19 am by brandy101

    Lisa Milton
    May 18, 2008   11:12 AM PDT
     
    I think that would annoy me too.

    (The only thing I want to hear is sympathy. A little kindness.)
    Scott
    May 18, 2008   12:36 AM PDT
     
    Yeah- I don't want to know anything about these things: I have a horror of being asked to go and buy sanitary wotsits at the shop: Worse than condoms! I have to fill an entire basket just to conceal the real motive for the shopping trip. Men can't talk about these things: it automatically gets women on edge- they think 'Well what the hell do you know you selfish non-menstruating son-of-a- well, you get the picture.
    As an aside: when arguing with your spouse, don't suggest that she is maybe a little grouchy because it is a certain time of the month- you will be ironing/cooking/buying gifts for the next month just to make it up. Sigh. Women. Imagine if men had to bleed monthly- they'd nebver leave their rooms...
    AbbyNormal
    May 17, 2008   10:50 AM PDT
     
    Ugh, I agree! I grew up with a bunch of guys, spent my school years and professional life with a bunch of guys and have no troubles speaking with guy about most anything. Except that. That's for us to know and them to deal with!
     

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