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I am an East Coast expatriate hiding out in the Midwest...

I am an urban gal living in the suburbs and occasionally hiding in the country

I am a yoga practitioner, fitness enthusiast, believer in the mind-body-spirit connection...

I am a mid-life "revert" to the Roman Catholic faith in which I was raised and which has become an enormous source of support, encouragement, inspiration, and joy in my life...

I am a mom, sister, daughter, and wife...

I am an explorer; adventurous and curious about the world and people around me...

I am educated in the formal sense but I gain insight through everyday living...

I created this blog at a time of great fear and apprehension in my life. I chose to sustain it because of the discoveries about myself and the world around me that it has revealed.



What you can expect to find here:
  • the documentation of a love-hate relationship with the greater Philadelphia area
  • reminiscing about the good-ole-days (the 80's!)
  • complaints about my various ailments and injuries, both real and imagined
  • pictures and stories of gardening, decorating, shopping, sewing
  • my love of irony
  • links to kooky news stories
  • way too much scatological musing for sane people


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    Friday, June 03, 2005
    Kindergarden ReDesign

    As of August 18th I will have a kindergardener in my home! Thursday was my daughter's last day of preschool but there was no hoopla as its a mixed-age class so some kids return in the fall (or summer, I should say - AUGUST?!?) while others (like my kid who is 5 1/2) go on to kindergarden.

    Last week I attended a kindergarden orientation for parents of incoming students and it didn't tell me much. Perhaps the problem was that I kept reminiscing on my kindergarden days - especially my fascination with the the Letter People: inflatible characters for each letter of the alphabet. My favorite (or maybe I was scared of it...I forget WHY I was obsessed with it) was "Mr. M, with a munching mouth..." With the aid of a portable phonograph, Inflatable Mr M, who looked like a gangster out of "Guys and Dolls" sang about the various foods he enjoyed, like meatballs, macaroni, milkshakes...you get the idea.

    Our class was lead by a truly groovy young male teacher, Mr. Varoski. I'm not sure how old he was, but I'm guessing he was in his early 20's or so. It was 1974 and my "cool" and exuberant teacher wore colorful psychedelic "blouses" (as my mother referred to them) and silver bangle bracelets. He drove a lime green VW bug. He had frosted blonde hair. In fact, I freaked out the first time I saw HGTV's ReDesign because Mr. V could have been the 70's version of none other than Kenneth Brown. Oh, wait a minute, Kenneth Brown IS the 70's version of Kenneth Brown!

    (You gotta love that designer wisdom)

     


    Posted at 03:57 am by brandy101
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    Thursday, June 02, 2005
    Mike Brady, C'mon Down!

    The Architect is coming over tonight to go over our revised addition plans which have changed since we are now chukking the septic and well. Oy vey, that water/swewr upgrade alone is gonna run just under 20g's. *Gulp!*

    Plus the design and  construction drawings will be another $1800.

    The bad news: we will have alot less moolah left in our budget to do much of the addition! There will be MUCH of the project left unfinished by the end of the year, I'm sure. But as long as it gets framed, sided, roofed and drywalled (oh yeah, and heating and water, electricity, etc.) that's enough to tide us over. Hubby can paint, do crown moulding, install interior doors and closets. He can also install bathroom fixtures but it would make more sense to have the tub brought in, 'cause Lord knows I ain't gonna help with that! Technically we won't HAVE to have the bathroom stuff done at first, either, if we run our of money. Just those functional bedrooms will be the bare minimum until, say, we get our 2005 tax refund! I do dream about the EVENTUAL completion of all this stuff but considering what's in the bank, I'm getting more pragmatic about it.

    The good news: getting rid of the well allows us to do my "ideal" plan which will be a 2-car side-load garage, 2-story with 2 bedrooms and bath above. This allows some savings in that we can do a slab-on-grade foundation instead of trying to match up to the exisiting house with a more expenisve trenched foundation and crawlspace. It also means we can attach it to the area at the back door which is a rather unnattractive entryway, currently. It also will allow us to put in (finally!) a "real" foyer, coat closet and possibly a powder room, too.

    But first things first...

    I am still waiting on a second bid for the well/septic conversion. Once that is done THEN I have to wait some more for permits from the Village. THEN I have to coordinate the water hookup with the well sealing. And once the construction designs are completed then I have to face the daunting task of finding a budget-friendly-but-non-crapulent General Contractor. It was bad enough trying to even get plumbers to BID on my current job - some people totally blew off their appointments to give me an estimate! I guess they don't need or want the work. Must be nice.

    I just got in after making a few copies of our plat of survey at Kinkos. So technically I spent my first $ on this project: $5.21 for 2 oversize map copies.



    Post-script: oh fartypants, the Architect called; he had to reschedule for Monday.


    Posted at 02:19 pm by brandy101
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    Saturday, May 28, 2005
    Chicken & Asparagus

    As promised:

    Chicken & Asparagus Casserole

    1 lb boneless, skinless chicken breasts OR chicken tenderloins
    1 lb (bunch) fresh asparagus OR 1 package frozen asparagus (works fine with either)
    1 packet Carb Options Mushroom Recipie Mix OR similar brand of dried mushroom soup mix
    1/2 C. sour cream (can use light sour cream but NOT fat free)
    1 C. milk (skim works fine)

    1. Trim asparagus (if needed) and steam until bright green - if using frozen, also steam it.
    2. Trim chicken into tenderloin-sized strips and poach (boil in water) for 10 minutes.
    3. Spray a large baking dish with nonstick cooking spray and place steamed asparagus in it.
    4. Place cooked chicken pieces on top of asparagus.
    5. Mix together mushroom recipe mix, sour cream and milk and pour over chicken and asparagus.
    6. Bake at 350 degrees for 45 minutes.
     
    NOTES:

    I think that if you are totally adverse to asparagus, you could substitute fresh, steamed green beans of hari coverts (baby green beans) instead.

    I serve this with some fresh whole-grain dinner rolls. It might also be nice with plain cous cous, rice or similar grain if you are commited to a starch-based side dish.

    The first time I made this I used mayonaise instead of sour cream; it tasted great but was lumpy. If that's all you have on hand, you can certainly use it.

    You can also use those frozen chicken tenderloins or breasts since you have to poach it first anyway, but be aware that it does add more sodium than fresh chicken.

    Posted at 03:28 pm by brandy101
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    Wednesday, May 25, 2005
    It Was A Raejane Kinda Day...

    Anyone who has read Raejane's blog has (hopefully) both chuckled and huffed after reading her tales of the uber-rudenicks that she somehow manages to be next to in line at the supermarket or unfortunately seated next to at a restaurant. Well I had a "raejane"  encounter - or NEARLY one of my own today.

    I promised my daughter that we'd go to our local indoor pool after school today. We arrived at the newly-refurbished natatorium around 4pm and had fun splashing about in the "family activity pool" for awhile. After a bathroom break we returned to the pool and I realized my skin was itching from the chlorine, so I opted to sit on the perimeter with my towel while she played some more. By that time, there were plenty of other kids there for her to play with. She is a very outgoing and sociable little gal, and when she noticed two girls about her age playing ball, she sloshed over to them and said, "Hi, can I play with you?"

    The first girl she asked literally glared at her then continued throwing the ball to her friend. Then my little one, not yet discouraged, apporached the other girl asking the same question, only to be met with a blank stare. My poor kiddo must have asked about 5 times to each gal, chasing them around the pool, assuming that they hadn't heard her. At that point I really stared getting pissed off! How dare these 5-year-old little brats IGNORE the very polite and amiable requests of my child! And even worse, how dare the two mothers of these girls not intervene at their apparent awkwardness, or shyness, or whatever their issue was. I called my daughter over to prevent her feelings from getting bruised and suggested that she and I leave. I also asked her what happend. She stated simply, "Mommy I asked nicely if I could play but they just IGNORED me." Now, she's a darn tough-skinned little kid, but after witnessing that rude behavior from the other girls and hearing her reiterate what I witnessed, I nearly cried, myself.

    The two moms of the rude girls both appeared to be about my age: a blonde woman and a visibly pregnant gal. As my daughter and I headed to the locker room, I noticed these moms and their kids were off in that direction, as well. I had a pit in my stomach and my brain was racing with all sorts of nasty semi-scolding remarks for these women about their kids. Usually I ignore bad behavior from other people and tell my dauhter to do the same - but my hormones are in upheaval now so the adrenaline was pumping!

    Fast forward to post-shower dressing time in the locker room.  Somehow my daughter noticed one of the little girls at the hair drying machine and ambled up to her again to chat. I was about to reign her in from her seemingly futile attempts to engage these tight-lipped lasses when I noticed one girl had on a "Long Beach, New Jersey" sweatshirt. I asked her, "Oh, honey, did you go to New Jersey for vacation?" Again, a blank stare back at me.

    Then the blonde mom intervened. She poked her head around the corner and I plainly asked HER, "Do you guys go to the Jersey shore for vacation?" Her reply stunned me, and thankfully, in a GOOD way.

    "Yeah, we went last year. Hey, you're from Philly, aren't you? I think we met on a plane years ago!"

    Click click WHIRRRRRR. Oh YEAHHHHHHHHH.

    After much excited chatting between us, we realized that yes, we shared adjacent seats on a flight from Chicago to Philly some 3 1/2 years ago, our daughters sharing stickers and us reminiscing on being Philly expatriates here in the NW burbs of Chi-town. She introduced me to her pregnant frind, Becky, who was also quite friendly and chatty. Apparently they did not know about the snub job their respecitve daughters gave my kid in the pool and when it manifested itself in the locker room, they instructed their offspring (who, apparently are painfully shy around strangers) to "say hi and be nice."

    And with the mere maternal blessing, the girls allowed my progeny to join their hairdrying clique. Meanwhile I had a nice time chatting with these two friendly women, even getting a hug from Becky after a funny remark I made. Its funny how quickly my claws retracted from my initial urge - and all because I spotted that sweatshirt.

    Posted at 10:17 pm by brandy101
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    Sunday, May 22, 2005
    The Price of Chicken

    Sorry folks but I won't be making that Chicken & Asparagus dish modification (and thus, then reporting the hopefully-corrected recipe) to you this week either as the price of boneless skinless chicken in my 'hood has just been too high lately.

    Also, since hubby is still working that swing shift, we aren't eating "big" family dinners - we all have a lunch together then he sleeps and goes to work at 9:15 or so. Kiddo and I have just been eating small microwave-oriented meals for dinner.

    The d*mn plumbers haven't forwarded their proposals/estimates to me yet so I am starting to lose patience as we REALLY gotta get moving on this project (and the entire home additon thang) immediately. Whythe rush? Hmmm...the answer to this question will apparently present itself in 8 months or so...

    *wink wink*

    Posted at 09:43 pm by brandy101
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    Thursday, May 19, 2005
    swamped

    Lately our life around the house has been a bit nutty:

    Hubby is woking a swing-shift (middle of the night) for a few weeks in order to support and work with users and programmers in Europe and Asia for the project he is managing, so that's got the family schedule a bit haywire, but we are managing.

    Then I spend each day researching and meetng with contractors, county, state, and town officials about converting our house to municipal sewer and water. Its like jumping through hoops and then realizing you have a long row of hurdles after that. I'm not frustrated YET... actually the sewer part is fairly straighforward. Its eliminating our well that is a real headache, due to the number of contractors that have to do their specific parts of the job  - so until I get all of the specific County legalities spelled out (the single guy who handles this is, naturally, on vacation until next week) I can't get an accurate estimate on the cost of the job. There is nothing WRONG with our well or the water pouring forth from it - in act its like drinking and bathing in Evian, its so pure and delicious. BUT the location of the well is directly behind the house - in the only location where we can build an addition. If I can get nail down exact requiements for easments from the vault and well head from the county, then it might be possible for our architecht to come up with a design that would allow us to keep the well. But until I know for sure...I'm gonna keep "diggin'" for as much information as I can get.

    Posted at 11:54 am by brandy101
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    Thursday, May 12, 2005
    Recipes

    Per the requests for the Chicken & Asparagus in Mushroom Creme Sauce...

    I will post the recipe BUT I first have to make it again with one change in ingredients. While the dish turned out delicious, hubby and I agreed that the "visual presentation" was somewhat lacking (i.e. - it looked kinda yukky but tasted kickass.)

    So...

    I plan to change one ingredient in the sauce that should make for a smoother, creamier look to the sauce instead of the lumpy look the first try revealed. If it turns out well then I'll post it for anyone adventurous enough to try it. (Actually its pretty easy and only has 5 ingredients in the whole dish.)

    :)

    Posted at 02:41 pm by brandy101
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    Wednesday, May 11, 2005
    Half-Baked

    Its quite sickening, really, how much cooking I've been doing since getting my new kitchen "toy". Well, not sickening per se, unless you consider that it was 83 degrees here yesterday, we don't yet have our air conditioners installed, and I decided to whip up a new recipe for dinner that required baking something for 40 minutes at 400 degrees. Man, this place was SWELTERING but DAMN! that chicken-and-asparagus-in-mushroom-creme-sauce was DELICIOUS! As I type, I await the completion of an oven-baked apple-cinnamon french toast. (Insert drooling emoticon here.)

    Maybe its that I feel the need to justify this purchase with elaborate and exotic culinary delights... or that I've been craving some good food lately after a few weeks with more than usual restaurant meals. Either way, unlike Applebee's patrons, my family really IS "Eating good in the neighborhood."

    Posted at 09:11 am by brandy101
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    Sunday, May 08, 2005
    Burn baby, burn

    My oven bit the dust; apparently both the ignition and gas regulator are failing. :(

    The cooktop part works but without an oven, my meal prep options are limited. And lemme tell ya: I cook. Alot.

    So "Happy Mother's Day!" to me: Hubby said I can pick out a new range - within certain price limits. And (whoo-hoo!) a new range hood, too (ours is barely functioning).

    Off to Sears we go - and lucky for us, they are having a free delivery/0% financing deal right now on cooking appliances.  There is a Sears Appliance Store about 5 miles from our house, but we are heading to a store in the city since one of our friends is an appliance salesman at that store - not that we get a discount but at least we'll know the commission (i.e. the markup we have to pay) is going to a friend.

    I decided to NOT go with the cheapest range on the market since the one feature that irks me about my current range is the broiler "drawer." I broil with surprising frequency - steaks, lamb chops, turkey tenderloin and cremes brulees, to name a few. However since the broiler is on the bottom of the range I literally have to crawl on the ground to get to the drawer and cook the food there.

    When I noted my desire to move up to a different broiler setup, hubby crassly noted, "Oh, but I like you on your knees!"

    Grrr. No soup for him!

    Posted at 12:58 am by brandy101
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    Thursday, May 05, 2005
    Pictures, oh we got pictures

    By request some more Percy the kitten pics, plus my birthday "portrait":

     


    "2 sleeping babies" - Hubby insisted on allowing the kitten in our bed. About an hour later he was dashing around biting our ankles (Percy, not my husband!)


    Buster the senior-citizen (15 yrs old) and Percy cuddling together.


    "Dangit, I need a haircut!" is the title of this pic...

    Here for all to see and adore is the relied-upon, constantly re-used birthday gift bag...this one had some pretty cool gear in it this year:

    • a microdermabrasion kit (which is nothing more than some pumice cream, moisturizer and what I was disappointed to learn is simply a 2-speed vibrator to use on your face!) No, hubby ain't in the doghouse for the microdermabrasion spa kit - I specifically requested it and he obliged, but I used it tonight and its a totally lame piece of cr*p, so save your $$ ladies and gents, and just get a good exfoliator cream and moisturizer with SPF in it. Or go the glcolic acid route if that suits your skin. Update: I will admit that my skin feels very soft this morning after a session with the vibe 'n grit cream last night!
    • a large bath scrubbie (chosen by my daughter)
    • a generous Target gift card

      I plan to buy a new dinette table with the gift card to replace the college-days cast-off we've been using for many years now.  Hey, I have a kid (think: crayons, play-doh, markers, spills) and pets not to mention a BUDGET so no Ethan Allen or Walter E. Smithe in the gameplan for quite awhile. And perhaps I'll have some dough left over to replace those Stevie Nicks-wannabe pieces of shite earrings I wore last night. Oh man what was I thinking...


     

    Posted at 09:30 am by brandy101
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