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I am an East Coast expatriate hiding out in the Midwest...

I am an urban gal living in the suburbs and occasionally hiding in the country

I am a yoga practitioner, fitness enthusiast, believer in the mind-body-spirit connection...

I am a mid-life "revert" to the Roman Catholic faith in which I was raised and which has become an enormous source of support, encouragement, inspiration, and joy in my life...

I am a mom, sister, daughter, and wife...

I am an explorer; adventurous and curious about the world and people around me...

I am educated in the formal sense but I gain insight through everyday living...

I created this blog at a time of great fear and apprehension in my life. I chose to sustain it because of the discoveries about myself and the world around me that it has revealed.



What you can expect to find here:
  • the documentation of a love-hate relationship with the greater Philadelphia area
  • reminiscing about the good-ole-days (the 80's!)
  • complaints about my various ailments and injuries, both real and imagined
  • pictures and stories of gardening, decorating, shopping, sewing
  • my love of irony
  • links to kooky news stories
  • way too much scatological musing for sane people


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    Thursday, January 20, 2005
    Talk about a ring of fire...

    Before I continue this post, please promise me, dear readers, that none of you will call the SPCA/Humane Society on me!

    Yesterday was a banner day for workouts for me - a 30 minute Pilates reformer session in the morning(a rather tortuous/medieval-looking machine that I use along w. a videotape) and then 45 minutes of Yogilates in the evening.  After all of that contorting and stretching, I felt a hot bath was in order to ease my back and muscles.

    To further set the zen-like ambiance in my faux-Feng Shui bathroom, I lit a plumeria-scented candle and set it on the counter.

    Hubby came home while the tub was filling and decided he needed to use the facilities before my appointed soaking time. As is usual for evenings, my sweet, but rather clumsy and dippy 14-year-old long-haired cat, "Buster", also entered the bathroom, since he enjoys the warmth of the steam.

    I was putting something away in the kitchen when I heard my husband screaming, "MOVE, goddamn it!"

    When the door opened, he noted, "Well you'll have a new scent to delight you in the bathroom now." I thought he was referring to a particularly pungent excretory experience he had while on the throne but NO!

    He clarified his original statement, "Buster was on fire."

    Confused, I began my reply, "Wha...? You mean like smoldering or...?"

    "No. In FLAMES. On FIRE. Didn't you hear me yelling? He just sat there on the counter oblivious to the fact that he whisked his tail across the candle and it was engulfed in flames! I had to get off the toilet to put it out!"

    In fact the cat's hair is so long that it didn't even burn close to his skin, and so we had to take scissors and cut away the melted stubs of hair on part of his otherwise mega-fluffy tail. Of course we checked the little guy and he's just fine but a bit annoyed about the scissors issue.

    Do you know how BAD burnt hair smells???

    Talk about putting a wrench in my chi...


    As a postscript, here is a saccharin-sweet picture of Buster giving his trademark hug, eyes closed, the purring resonating deeply. Clearly he has forgiven any (accidental) wrongdoing, as he was hugging and nuzzling me just moments ago. I have had this fuzzy guy since he was 5 months old - and that was back in 1991!



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    Wednesday, January 19, 2005
    I need sunshine...

    Winter Blahs, Seasonal Affective Disorder, Cabin Fever...

    Well, whatever you want to call it I think I have a touch of it today and so to reflect on warm, blue skies of days past, I offer the following photos from August, 2004. Yet more surfing pics, although  man, was it WINDY that day!  There was a crazy southbound "current" although it was really just the wind pushing the water - and us on our funboards - in that direction. I think we are giggling because we were struggling to hold the boards upright for the picture due to those gusts. I think the clouds look very cool , if not slightly intimidating. I think this was one of the first times I went out on a "real" board before - my sister is pretty darn good and she gave me some good pointers, even though it was a lousy day for it.



    And here we are "setting up" to attempt to catch a ride in...



     

    I am looking forward to more surfing this summer...until then I will have to manage to navigate the ice pond in my yard.

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    Tuesday, January 18, 2005
    Lest I forget...

    Go EAGLES! (or "Iggles" if you're from Philly!)

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    More Fun on Passyunk Avenue

    Over the weekend, I received a cd of holiday pics from my sister courtesy of my parents-as-couriers. They flew into town for an additional birthday celebration for my daughter - a trip for all of us to partake of the "dinner and tournament" that is Medieval Times. Yes, there were dashing "knights", too many ways to spend money, and plenty of chicken to be eaten with your hands. Don't get me wrong - it was an enjoyable evening but I'm not up for expounding on castle-born fantasies at the moment.

    I left off my last Philly-oriented entry at Marra's restaurant where my little one enjoyed not only the delicious tartufo for dessert, but wolfed down what we told her was "chicken" but was actually expertly prepared fried calamari. She asked repeatedly through the evening, "Can I have more calamari chicken, please?"

    Back streetside on Passyunk, that delightful diagonal that offers relief from the bustle of the city grid, we took some funny photos - and yet have none of the landmark "King of Jeans" sign. I now feel challenged to get one. Naturally somewhere in my photo archive I have a pic outside garish tourist trap Geno's Steaks, but until I dig that up, I offer the following:

    We snapped a background of "A Man's Image" but for some reason, middle sister is pointing at yet another landmark...


    ...none other than a bridal shop with a Mummer groom in the window display; NOWHERE else but Philly would you see something like this! Unfortunately, middle sister is hiding behind me but we had fun dramatising our amazement of this display.

    (For more photos/film clips/explanation of the Mummery tradition in Philly, check out the site for Strut! the movie.)

     

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    Friday, January 14, 2005
    Ice Princess

    The other day we had unseasonably warm weather - a record high of 62 degrees by late afternoon. Of course, having such freakish warmth in January generated not only the rapid melting of some 9 inches of snowpack, it also produced an unusual wintertime thunderstorm, complete with driving rains. By late evening our backyard looked like a small lake - although it was actually only low spots in the grass with a few inches of water.

    Yesterday the temperatures dipped to "normal" and we even got more snow. And then I got an idea last night while walking the dog and sensing the declining thermometer readings.

    I checked the news before bed and sure enough this weekend was predicted to be in the single digits; as I write this entry it is 7.

    And as I suspected during my dog walk, the small "pond" in the yard turned into a smooth glaze of ice, just thick enough to support the weight of a certain 5-year old I know.

    So I scurried up to the attic and produced a pair of those "kiddie skates" - the double blades set wide apart that strap on to shoes or boots.

    I stated to my daughter over breakfast, "What would you think about bundling up and ice skating in the backyard?"

    She was perplexed and asked a flurry of questions about the logistics of my proposed activity. But I guess I convinced her well enough to stuff her into a warm snowsuit, layering on a balaclava (ski mask type thing), fleece socks, double-padded mittens and then head outdoors.

    Luckily for us, the sunny skies made the otherwise arctic atmosphere bearable, and we had a fun time stumbling about on the ice.

    Here is the skater before:



    and AFTER - note the ACTION shot - the skates are still in the air!!! (Don't worry, she was fine and giggled about it.)


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    Tuesday, January 11, 2005
    Me and The Girls...South Philly Stylin' Part One

    Something of a new "tradition" in my family has transpired over the last few years. Since my daughter's birthday is so soon after Christmas, one of my sisters buys tickets for "Disney on Ice" as her birthday gift which plays around the holidays in Philadelphia. She, my other sister, and sometimes my mom, take the little one to the show either before or after meeting up with the rest of the crew (me, dad, brothers-in-law, etc.). This year, they picked her up early and took her to brunch at the Oregon Diner before the matinee.

    Since we are all hooking up in or near Center City, we make it our day to take the annual pilgrimage to Lord & Taylor (formerly Wanamaker's) to see the famous Light Show. Then, we re-assemble at my middle sister's 200-plus year-old "trinity" home (a traditional rowhouse style with living space on three levels) on the edge of South Philly before making our way to a big, boisterous, family dinner at Marra's on Passyunk Avenue.

    (NB: If you click the links to the Oregon Diner or Marra's reviews, you'll get a chuckle courtesy of one of my middle sister's best buddies, Lauren, a fellow restaurant reviewer.)

    I need to locate some other VERY amusing South Philly photos we shot that night (thanks to digtal cameras and a little chianti) but here are some pics of the sisters and me convening at Marra's, right before the escarole soup arrived.




    And, yes, although you can't *quite* tell in the pics, we are a blonde, a redhead, and a dark brunette...I have grey-blue eyes and freckles, middle sis has aqua-blue eyes and peachy skin, and baby sister has almost-black hair (naturally!), hazel eyes, and a rosy hue. (But of course we all have nearly IDENTICAL voices.) My sisters are the GREATEST!

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    Monday, January 10, 2005
    New-ish Computer

    Well yesterday I got my new-ish (well, new to me, that is) laptop; my old one was first ghosted then reformatted and fixed up so that my little one would have her own machine for all the various kindergarden-level PC games she got for Christmas. My clever and cautious husband also set up a proxy server on one of our machines here, and that functions as a super-mega-Internet filter for her machine so that she is limited to venture only to specific sites (NickJr.com, PBSKids.com, etc.) that he's setup for her.

    My "new" laptop is his old Linux box; that is, its a very good laptop that he acquired cheaply so that he could install and teach himself all about Linux. Since he already had his fun with that OS, he offered the machine to me, so he had to reformat it, load on a Windows OS, put all the junk he ghosted on to it, and install the various programs I need.

    Whew!

    But he got it all done and yesterday I had to clean out the "ghosted" stuff that I really didn't need to retain, and move/reorganinze the files I did want to keep. Overall it seem sto be working nicely; especially since this machine has about double the HD space and processor speed of my old machine. Hooray!

    So, I am posting today but I anticipate sporadic blog postings and visiting as I am trying to organize all of our paperwork for taxes (we do them as early as possible because we get a refund.) I also have some other paperwork-orineted chores to attend to, as well (bills, medical reimbursements, etc.)

    Fun stuff, eh? At least now I have a functioning R key, so no excuse left for my typos!

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    Monday, January 03, 2005
    Unusual gift

    Of all of the gifts I received over the holidays...

    ...the most puzzling would have to be the carefully bubble-wrapped package mailed to my husband and me from my mother-in-law.

    She sent us a framed photographic portrait of HERSELF. In an appliqued and beaded sweater, no less.

    Now, I could see if it was for my daughter or something, but she sent it to US!  It now resides in the depths of my china cabinet, ready to be pulled out and displayed when she visits.

    I know it sounds absurd but you can't make this stuff up!

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    Sunday, January 02, 2005
    Quickie update

    Just a quick update and a big HELLO to everyone in blogsville.

    I hope everyone had a happy and safe holiday week. My husband very smartly planned our road trip to avoid all frozen precipitation so we made great time and actually breezed though those 770-some miles each way with relative ease.

    I have many pictures to post but hubby hasn't uploaded them to our server yet as he's been busy putting some of his new (gift) power tools and handyman accessories to use fixing up this and that aound the house.

    Speaking of gifts, he overwhelmed me with EVERYTHING on my Target.com "wish list" that he had shipped to my parents' house. Nothing says "thoughtful" than a man repeatedly clicking the ADD TO CART button 15 times in a row. hehehe.

    One of the gift I received (which was on my "wish list" and so I was NOT insulted to receive it) is a electronic scale/body fat monitor, which seems to work very well. In fact, according to my new "toy", I manged to not gain any weight over the holidays. Now that is certainly a gift in and of itself!

    I went to my local Target the other day to pick up some cleaning and organizing supplies (oh how I LOVE those ornament boxes!!!) and found the "crowning glory" for this year's Christmas card - some "antlers" for Annie to wear for a mere 25 cents! Ooh, but I'd better make sure to also get some bacon...

    Today is my daughter's 5th birthday. She and her dad are going to attempt to make a layer cake together, rather than buy store-bought. Personally, I finad great solace in the neatness and uniformity of a pre-done cake, but what the heck, it's her idea to bake and so I wish them luck AND I hope they clean up the kitchen when they are done.

     

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    Friday, December 24, 2004
    Holiday Greetings to All of My Blogpals

    Merry Christmas
    and Happy New Year
    From my family to yours!



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